To be Read at my Funeral2. Comment #9214 by Daniel DeCastro on November 24, 2006 at 6:22 am
Sorry, my name was misspelled above, it's Daniel not Dabiel.3. Comment #9228 by fun2bfree on November 24, 2006 at 7:11 am
RE #9211-4. Comment #9243 by Serge on November 24, 2006 at 8:10 am
Dr Dawkins,5. Comment #9244 by Hugo on November 24, 2006 at 8:12 am
#92286. Comment #9261 by Grace on November 24, 2006 at 9:21 am
Hm...bit of a morbid topic since I'm (hopefully) several decades from a funeral, but I'd like to have some use or existence after I'm dead.7. Comment #9267 by Ian Armer on November 24, 2006 at 9:37 am
Actually, before his spectacular U-Turn (?) in that God programme, Robert Winston addressed this issue (of our bodies breaking down and the atoms becomming part of something else again) in 'The Human Body' (BBC). THAT to me is a much kinder - and frankly much more comforting - notion of an 'afterlife' (or Continuation) than people suffering to get into God's good books.10. Comment #9288 by Anonymous on November 24, 2006 at 10:46 am
Hugo-11. Comment #9293 by Paul Caira on November 24, 2006 at 10:59 am
I'm not convinced that it's any comfort to know that my atoms will become 'star stuff' - especially since that will constitute me then won't (unless my death is much more imminent than I'm guessing!) be the atoms that constitute me now. We are beings of change, ever-changing in our constitution and our minds.12. Comment #9305 by Ian Armer on November 24, 2006 at 11:25 am
Please note that I said that I was quite happy to be SOMETHING not SOMEBODY else!14. Comment #9309 by Louis Perry on November 24, 2006 at 11:33 am
Thanks to Daniel DeCastro.16. Comment #9342 by Vadjong on November 24, 2006 at 2:17 pm
Richard, if you're reading this : you should step to the Natural History Dept. of the BBC and propose to make "Carl Sagan's COSMOS" for the 21st century in HDTV. Make it simple, beautiful and heartfelt. Ask people like Dan Dennett, William Calvin, E.O. Wilson, Ian Stewart & Jack Cohen, Michael Shermer, Michio Kaku, Pen & Teller, Antonio Damasio, Derren Brown, Stuart Kauffman, Douglas Hofstadter and others you can think of to bring idea's. With beauty-shots from space telescopes and nature and some next-gen computer graphics. Music by the likes of George Fenton, Hans Zimmer and Philip Glass.17. Comment #9346 by seals on November 24, 2006 at 2:28 pm
Sorry this is a bit nihilistic, but I cant see why anyone would waste a single second of their life thinking obout death, if they believe that after death, there is nothing. Surely, well in my opinion, the only thing that makes death worth thinking about is that we don't actually know what happens to our consciousness? If there's nothing after death, there's nothing for the whole of humanity, not just ourselves as individuals.18. Comment #9347 by toomanytribbles on November 24, 2006 at 2:34 pm
paul caira, your 'babbling' seems eerily familiar to my restless mind.20. Comment #9364 by TIKI AL on November 24, 2006 at 3:13 pm
Those who wish to do so may place a flower on my grave, and those who feel quite differently may stradle it and mimic the incontinent.21. Comment #9367 by Daniel DeCastro on November 24, 2006 at 3:28 pm
Actually the fact that I am part of this world in such a way encourages me all the more to do good for it, and for others on this planet. It is our actions which ultimately determine whether or not the earth we live in is a good or bad place to live. I'd like to know that once my body is recycled, that it's constituent parts end up being part of a wonderful planet. This is idealistic, too idealistic for some, but it is a motivator for me. Nice guys finish first.22. Comment #9373 by Randy Ping on November 24, 2006 at 3:44 pm
I know it's a long shot, but I'm shooting for immortality. Cryo, baby. Screw the abyss and death itself. We can beat it if we stop the defeatist attitudes.23. Comment #9378 by rob on November 24, 2006 at 4:06 pm
One thing that Richard doesn't mention is that the great majority of us, as products of evolution, have a deep seated, low level "avoidance of death" instinct.24. Comment #9382 by Daniel DeCastro on November 24, 2006 at 4:27 pm
I would only fear death more if the world I leave behind when I die is one of chaos and disorder. Otherwise, if things seem to be going the right way, I'll die contently. If worse comes to worse, I'll ask that my ashes be scattered somewhere in Japan with those of my wife. I have high hopes for that culture. Hopefully they don't dissapoint me like the U.S. has, otherwise, I'd choose another land for me to be apart of.25. Comment #9599 by Anonymous on November 25, 2006 at 8:31 am
It seems that the concept of "I" seems to precede in value that which allows your identity ("I"), to come to being in the first place. It is almost like saying that "I" have nothing to do with my environment. I just can't agree with this solipsism.26. Comment #9846 by Daniel DeCastro on November 26, 2006 at 8:01 am
It's interesting that you mention "Katamary Damaci" Joe!27. Comment #9969 by David Williams on November 26, 2006 at 7:45 pm
A hundred years after we die no one will even know our name. Look at any headstone and you will see two dates, the date of birth and the date of death. Between these two dates there is a dash, and that insignificant dash, my friends, is our entire life. It doesnt matter when we are born and it doesnt matter when we die its what we do with that 'dash'. As to the words at my funeral, I know what they will be (read the last page on Arthur Clarke's Childhoods End and you will know). I know there is no life after death and to think otherwise is foolish and at best immature but as I write these words and knowing what will be said makes me feel good, and everybody needs that.28. Comment #10121 by thegashman on November 27, 2006 at 5:56 am
To those that don't care what is said at their funeral, I think you are wasting a rare opportunity.29. Comment #10208 by thegashman on November 27, 2006 at 1:14 pm
ps - obviously I'm not condoning some kind of zombie style resurrection to address your family and friends, but maybe tape a speech or write one for a partner or friend etc. I didn't want to get labelled as a witch doctor as well as an apathetic, nihilistic, etc etc30. Comment #12063 by ei muista on December 10, 2006 at 2:51 am
Prof. Dawkins' notion of us being 'lucky' implies that some unborn people are unlucky! That's just nonsense. Dawkins writes "You are lucky to be alive and so am I." That might even spur some unwanted laughter by the grave. I guess what he intends to say is "... and so WAS I".31. Comment #15396 by meganmills on December 31, 2006 at 1:13 am
Re Comment #9346 by seals on November 24, 2006 at 2:28 pm32. Comment #62800 by mikeofdoom on August 11, 2007 at 1:28 pm
'scuse me for signing up then dredging up old threads, but i think it pertinent to point out that Sagan's comment about us being "starstuff" refers to the fact that the elements heavier than hydrogen & helium were ALL forged in dying stars.33. Comment #117439 by preachingyourfuneral on January 28, 2008 at 7:54 pm
Richard Dawkins memorial service will be held on Friday Febuary 1, 2008. Pilgrim Baptist Church will be officating the funeral service.
1. Comment #9200 by LWS on November 24, 2006 at 5:49 am
Dear Richard Dawkins,You may change your mind about what should be read at a memorial service for you between now and the final event, which hopefully will not happen for many years.
My husband and I have advised our son to give the body parts away and then to host a really great party at our house. It will have to be pot luck as my husband is an accountant and extremely frugal but the guests will get a chance to dance to one of our favourite blues bands which we will pay for. Our son was not raised with any superstition and is quite puzzled when he does from time to time attend religious services. He is completely on the same page as us when it comes to rituals and has learned enough from his mom to be completely confident in planning a themed party funeral.