Skip to Main Content (access key 1)
Skip to Search (access key 2)
Skip to Search GO (access key 3)
Skip to comments (access key 4)
Skip to navigation (access key 5)
Skip to top of page (access key 6)
Tuesday, April 8, 2008 | Reason : In the News | print version Print | Comments |

Video The Atheist Next Door

CBS

Comments 1 - 50 of 59 |

Reload Comments | Back to Top | Page Numbers

1. Comment #156889 by JemyM on April 8, 2008 at 11:16 am

 avatarWhere do I place my trust and my hope.

I place my trust and my hope in humanity and the human spirit. I can see good people in all cultures, all nations, all religions, even the ones weighted down by the bad.

Other Comments by JemyM

2. Comment #156892 by TheSwede on April 8, 2008 at 11:19 am

I love (read: hate) the terminology by the reporter:
-"They do not believe in God"

Why doesn't he say "They do not believe in a god" or "they don't believe in any gods" or "they do not believe in any supernatural being or force"?

Saying what he does implies that they deviate from a standard. Culturally I can accept this, given that americans generally are christian - but to the idea of atheism this is irrelevant.

Other Comments by TheSwede

3. Comment #156894 by AdrianB on April 8, 2008 at 11:22 am

 avatarInteresting that they suggest atheists have become more outspoken in response to the increasing power of the religious right.

Perhaps the penny will drop, that in their attempt to monopolise "everything" the religious right will one day end up with "nothing."

Other Comments by AdrianB

4. Comment #156895 by Vaal on April 8, 2008 at 11:22 am

 avatarWhere do I place my trust and my hope?

NOT in a despotic desert God who will fry me for eternity for not groveling in worship. In crisis, as we all do, just get through it with the help of friends and family, and understand that life does have some nasty elements we all have to face, as well as good, without obeisance to a non existent supernatural entity.

Other Comments by Vaal

5. Comment #156900 by Enlightenme.. on April 8, 2008 at 11:28 am

 avatarThey found this family in America where ALL FOUR of them are rational human beings ?? This is some real weird shit.

"they suggest atheists have become more outspoken"
I think he said 'Lashing out'!

Other Comments by Enlightenme..

6. Comment #156902 by friendly-atheist on April 8, 2008 at 11:30 am

"they don't believe in God!" dundundunnnnnnn!

they should have had scary horror film music at that part.

people should back up their beliefs with evidence? what a radical notion!

Other Comments by friendly-atheist

7. Comment #156907 by phil rimmer on April 8, 2008 at 11:37 am

 avatar
They found this family in America where ALL FOUR of them are rational human beings ?? This is some real weird shit.


Nah! It was faked. You could see when they turned away, they had glinty red eyes....

Other Comments by phil rimmer

8. Comment #156910 by Alkal on April 8, 2008 at 11:40 am

Whom do you trust...?

Myself, who is far more real than an invisible sky fairy...

Other Comments by Alkal

9. Comment #156911 by Colwyn Abernathy on April 8, 2008 at 11:41 am

 avatar"Vigorously responding to Christians who are outspoken in politics..."

Yeah, it's ALL ABOUT YOU. Irrational word and deed is the same regardless of creed, that means ANY god/goddess/deity. Your particular brand of theism isn't special, just the most popular in the US.

Other Comments by Colwyn Abernathy

10. Comment #156912 by yussel123 on April 8, 2008 at 11:42 am

 avatarThere is NO family in America all of whose members are rational. I would wager that there are few, if any, who have even 1 rational member

Other Comments by yussel123

11. Comment #156914 by Colwyn Abernathy on April 8, 2008 at 11:45 am

 avatar
Myself, who is far more real than an invisible sky fairy...


And my Fellow Travelers. Sure, they can let me down, betray me, or take advantage of me, but at least there's something REAL to blame and count on alike.

Other Comments by Colwyn Abernathy

12. Comment #156919 by JSCintron on April 8, 2008 at 11:54 am

You make a very good point TheSwede.

Other Comments by JSCintron

13. Comment #156922 by FreeThink25 on April 8, 2008 at 11:55 am

What do you place your trust in during time of need?


Translation: You mean you don't have an imaginary friend?!?

This question doesn't even make any sense. It operates under the premise that you MUST place trust in something external during a time of need, rather than just adapting/surviving/coping. A gazelle being chased by a cheetah doesn't place its trust in anything...it just runs its ass off.

Other Comments by FreeThink25

14. Comment #156927 by jimbob on April 8, 2008 at 12:00 pm

When are we going to stop this passive approach to the "how can you be moral without god" question?

For goodness sake --- religion is an impediment to humanistic morality more often than not! Let's go on the offensive and point that out for a change!

Other Comments by jimbob

15. Comment #156933 by kaiser on April 8, 2008 at 12:07 pm

The Bishop looks like George Carlin

Other Comments by kaiser

16. Comment #156936 by rotaTOR on April 8, 2008 at 12:13 pm

 avatarThere is NO family in America all of whose members are rational. I would wager that there are few, if any, who have even 1 rational member


I will wager that you fool. 300 million people are all irrational? what nonsense. how old are you?

Other Comments by rotaTOR

17. Comment #156937 by Blue Monster 65 on April 8, 2008 at 12:14 pm

 avatarInteresting ... it locked up on me when it got to the Pastor asking, "Where do you place your hope?"

How about in my family and friends? How about in the fact that they are more likely to behave rationally and logically than someone who places than someone who places their faith in fairytales?

People, good sir, who are willing to do the right thing and be there in times of trouble and strife for their families and friends, as I would be for them.

Woof! - Scott

Other Comments by Blue Monster 65

18. Comment #156938 by mrjonno on April 8, 2008 at 12:15 pm

Its just weird watching that program as a Brit.
We share the same language as the US (mostly) but here 90% of citizens are atheist or agnostic/dont care where in the US 90% are seriously religious.

Just shows how culturely different we have become

Other Comments by mrjonno

19. Comment #156944 by AmericanGodless on April 8, 2008 at 12:20 pm

 avatarThe difference:
Religious morality: responsibility TO a moral code.
Godless morality: responsibility TO AND FOR a moral code.

The greatest evil of religion is that believers can do anything and feel good about it, just as long as they can pretend that it is approved by their god, their church, their pastor, or someone/something other than themselves. The godless have nobody else to blame, nothing to hide behind. How can you be moral without being godless?

Other Comments by AmericanGodless

20. Comment #156947 by black wolf on April 8, 2008 at 12:27 pm

 avatarIt's really irrelevant if some people (in the US) become outspoken atheists in reaction to the religious right, or not. What matters is that they have a case, and if the religious right would walk into the ocean never to resurface, the atheist case would be just as valid.

Other Comments by black wolf

21. Comment #156950 by yussel123 on April 8, 2008 at 12:31 pm

 avatar#16

Your question about my age is a non-sequitur.

I'll grant you that my comment was something of an over-statement. Forgive me.

Other Comments by yussel123

22. Comment #156967 by chezzyd on April 8, 2008 at 12:48 pm

 avatarActually I think this is one of the kinder, more balanced reports I've seen on US news. Maybe the tide is turning? Maybe the consciousness raising that Richard, Sam et al have been doing is starting to filter through??

Other Comments by chezzyd

23. Comment #157012 by atheist_peace on April 8, 2008 at 1:36 pm

 avatar"Religious scholar"

Isn't that a contradiction of terms?

Other Comments by atheist_peace

24. Comment #157014 by al-rawandi on April 8, 2008 at 1:39 pm

 avataratheist_peace,




Nope. One who studies religion. Could be an anthropologist or historian.

Other Comments by al-rawandi

25. Comment #157036 by Pattern Seeker on April 8, 2008 at 1:55 pm

 avatarWhat!? There's an atheist who lives next door to me? Time to gather the pitchforks and torches and call the local mob for a witch hunt.

Other Comments by Pattern Seeker

26. Comment #157051 by Corylus on April 8, 2008 at 2:06 pm

 avatarPhil
Nah! It was faked. You could see when they turned away, they had glinty red eyes....

Damn straight. That poodle looked pretty shifty too.

Other Comments by Corylus

27. Comment #157099 by MelM on April 8, 2008 at 2:52 pm

"Where do you place your trust....?"

In March, there were two U.S. families who put there trust in the bishop's god. Their "prayer healing" for ill children didn't work; the kids died. Maybe this bishop should be reinterviewed; it would be interesting to see what puke he disgorges next time.

Other Comments by MelM

28. Comment #157130 by annabanana on April 8, 2008 at 3:13 pm

 avatarI love how at the beginning of the story, the journalist says something like "By all appearances, the Lowes are a normal, loving family..." as if he's about to tell you something that will show that they are not a normal loving family. WTF!?!

Other Comments by annabanana

29. Comment #157132 by ZekeCDN on April 8, 2008 at 3:15 pm

 avatarSure we can pick nits with the report (or some of the terminology used) but overall I thought it was a refreshingly positive portrayal--especially when compared with the typical treatment of the subject in the U.S. media. Remember that farcical "panel discussion" on CNN last year?

Other Comments by ZekeCDN

30. Comment #157167 by MarieCooper on April 8, 2008 at 3:46 pm

I can't believe that America (or anywhere) needs to have this discussion and be told that atheist are ordinary people too.
Do they think we all have horns and tails?

Other Comments by MarieCooper

31. Comment #157185 by FightingFalcon on April 8, 2008 at 4:12 pm

 avatar

There is NO family in America all of whose members are rational. I would wager that there are few, if any, who have even 1 rational member


Well, we can be sure that whatever country you are from has at least 1 completely ignorant person.


Its just weird watching that program as a Brit.
We share the same language as the US (mostly) but here 90% of citizens are atheist or agnostic/dont care where in the US 90% are seriously religious.

Just shows how culturely different we have become


I'm not really sure where this myth comes from that America is overrun with religious fanatics while Britain is totally secular. There's a study on Anglo-American attitudes in the most recent issue of The Economist and Americans were 80%/15% on whether they believe in god or not. Brits were 40%/35% on the question of god, with the former # being the amount who believed and the latter answering no.

I don't know where you got the idea that 90% of Brits are a hodgepodge of Atheists, Agnostics and/or Indifferent. I do agree that most Brits seem to be fairly indifferent, although I would doubt the % that you gave. FYI - I'm an American living in the UK.

Other Comments by FightingFalcon

32. Comment #157212 by tony the coastie on April 8, 2008 at 5:37 pm

 avatar#14 jimbob-I couldn't agree more. Recently I presented the argument that atheists can have moral character to some right-wing nutjobs. They, of course, brought up their usual-Hitler, communism, etc. Someone really needs to dispel the lies the religious right continue to spread. I swear I am going to re-read TGD and take notes that I can carry in my pocket!

Other Comments by tony the coastie

33. Comment #157250 by Shane Williams on April 8, 2008 at 7:10 pm

We're not a miniority, and we haven't been for quite some time. The title ended the video before it started.

Other Comments by Shane Williams

34. Comment #157257 by Bueller_007 on April 8, 2008 at 7:22 pm

The thing I disliked most was when the guy said he was an atheist because of the "certainty of science".

I think I understand what he meant, but I could easily see how that phrase would mislead the faithheads into thinking that atheism is about "faith in science".

Scientific claims are uncertain, and we admit it. They're always open to revision based on new evidence. That's what makes it superior to the "certain" claims of religion.

Other Comments by Bueller_007

35. Comment #157276 by headcold on April 8, 2008 at 8:15 pm

 avatarI hated that more than I've hated anything in a while.

Other Comments by headcold

36. Comment #157333 by Raiko on April 8, 2008 at 11:51 pm

 avatar
What do you place your trust in during time of need?


... some people have trustworthy friends and family. Really.

It almost seems like that's a novel concept to the people who made this program.

Other Comments by Raiko

37. Comment #157371 by John Desclin on April 9, 2008 at 2:13 am

to #19 (156944) by Americangodless

these sentences of yours are among the most to the point I have ever read on this thread and on this subject elsewhere (anywhere)! I think it deserves a large publicity. Congratulations for such clarity!

Other Comments by John Desclin

38. Comment #157450 by Ned Flanders on April 9, 2008 at 5:43 am

 avatarWhat a great load of steaming shite.

And next week, a family who don;t believe in pixies.

Other Comments by Ned Flanders

39. Comment #157461 by phasmagigas on April 9, 2008 at 5:57 am

 avatarthe tone of that piece is a bit odd, its almost like atheists are some curiosity, normal on the outside but behind the curtains have something they hide suitable for a circus side show. Once again, redundant questions on trust and goodness, thats all they have left, straws to clutch.

Other Comments by phasmagigas

40. Comment #157464 by Wosret on April 9, 2008 at 6:07 am

 avatarNothing makes me feel like such an outsider when I see these news reports. They are (quite poorly) attempting to explain a position that should be a logical necessity from any kind of objection position.

Unless you believe the truth to be relative, which it seems more and more people do from what I see. Most recently RD getting berated for saying that women's opinion on a factional issue didn't matter on "The Big Question."

Other Comments by Wosret

41. Comment #157466 by phasmagigas on April 9, 2008 at 6:07 am

 avatarthe atheist next door.

well its interesting that a family (a very pleasant one too)in our street who are homeschoolers and very religious often invite me to their home when their kids want to know something about an animal/bug they have found, they seem to feel im a very amiable person and obviously trustworthy, (its interesting though that dad might ask me something like 'so is this creature in the same family as that creature'!!!!!!!!!! GO FIGURE, and he opposes darwinism).

anyway i not sure how they would feel if they knew just what i really am although i'm finding it difficult to hide the horns, they are still short but the velvet is starting to break down at the moment!!

Other Comments by phasmagigas

42. Comment #157469 by keith on April 9, 2008 at 6:16 am

 avatar
Where do I place my trust and my hope.

I place my trust and my hope in humanity and the human spirit. I can see good people in all cultures, all nations, all religions, even the ones weighted down by the bad.

Amen and halleluyah to that, brother/sister!

However, if I were you I would try and whittle down my 'Things and people I trust' list a tiny bit, at least so that it no longer includes anyone and everyone on God's green Earth.

To trust both 'humanity' and 'the human spirit' is like trusting air: it's all around us and some of it stinks. How about trusting the people who have shown themselves worthy of your trust, not trusting the ones who have cheated you and reserving judgment on the other 99% of the world's population?

Trusting in humanity and the human spirit sounds warm and big-hearted, but what does it mean?

Other Comments by keith

43. Comment #157488 by Valiant on April 9, 2008 at 7:00 am

 avatarNotice in the end how she said "good arguments on both sides".

Other Comments by Valiant

44. Comment #157505 by ZekeCDN on April 9, 2008 at 7:50 am

 avatarIt's not that I mind being the odd man out, honest, but since I seem to have had such a different reaction from everyone else, I offer some perspectives from last year.

I thought our friends in the American media had evolved nicely in the past year :-)

Other Comments by ZekeCDN

45. Comment #157583 by RamziD on April 9, 2008 at 9:44 am

For those of you who do not live in the US, you might not appreciate that this news report was at least a step in the right direction towards presenting atheists in a positive light. In a country where atheists are widely despised because we are distrusted, the first step is to show religious people that "Yes, the atheists do live next door and they are normal just like you" (if you will grant the viewpoint that religious people are normal... sorry, couldn't resist). While it may seem obvious to us to the point that we are insulted when someone else comes to this "grand conclusion", we must realize that this is the harsh reality in the US and it will take some time and effort before the zeitgeist is changed.

Other Comments by RamziD

46. Comment #157647 by Raiko on April 9, 2008 at 11:27 am

 avatar#39:

the tone of that piece is a bit odd, its almost like atheists are some curiosity, normal on the outside but behind the curtains have something they hide suitable for a circus side show. Once again, redundant questions on trust and goodness, thats all they have left, straws to clutch.


What I find more odd is that they somehow make believe that this secretivity is the atheists' fault. What should follow such a presentation is why, within their society, these people seem like they need to hide something that should need absolutely no hiding. It's not like there's something wrong with someone not believing in God. Rather, a society that can't deal with that needs to reflect upon itself.

Other Comments by Raiko

47. Comment #157776 by bluebird on April 9, 2008 at 2:14 pm

 avatarWe liked this news clip; as RamziD says, it's a step in the right direction, at least.

This family could be us, except we have sons, and a Miniature Schnauzer ;)

Other Comments by bluebird

48. Comment #157823 by FightingFalcon on April 9, 2008 at 3:14 pm

 avatarZeke,


It's not that I mind being the odd man out, honest, but since I seem to have had such a different reaction from everyone else, I offer some perspectives from last year.

I thought our friends in the American media had evolved nicely in the past year :-)


I just watched the video that you linked to from CNN

Linky

I've been very vocal on this board about how foolish it is for Atheists to go after "In God We Trust" and "Under God" on US currency and in the Pledge of Allegiance, respectively. Part 1 of that story mentioned both cases and Part 2 (the debate) brought up the Pledge numerous times, as well as Michael Newdow. I can't express enough how opposed I am to going after the Pledge. I keep trying to tell people that it only hurts our cause but everyone thinks that its a target worth going after.

That whole debate just pissed me off though. Why is the ESPN sports commentator the only remote voice of reason there? Not to mention a black woman telling Atheists to shut up is ironic, given the history of blacks in America. Prayer in schools? UGH - I thought we settled that issue already?!

I'm too angry from watching that video. I need to go calm down....

Other Comments by FightingFalcon

49. Comment #157826 by heathen2 on April 9, 2008 at 3:15 pm

 avatarI found the tone of this annoying too. They report it with the approach that atheists are some odd weird bunch of people. I don't think that is how the public views us. Despite the polls of atheists being mistrusted to hold public office, I just never get that reaction when the question of atheism comes up. Maybe others have a different experience, perhaps depending on what part of the country you reside.

Other Comments by heathen2

50. Comment #157920 by ZekeCDN on April 9, 2008 at 6:30 pm

 avatarThank you RamziD and Bluebird for reassuring me that I wasn't nuts for detecting an (admittedly) small improvement in the tone of that CBS report. Although I don't live in the US, I'm just across the border (where we receive all of the American networks) and I'm all too aware that it's not just politicians who pander to the believers.

FightingFalcon wrote:
I just watched the video that you linked to from CNN

I actually agree with you that atheists should save whatever political capital they may have for important causes, instead of squandering it on "moral victories"--like the pledge and the currency--that won't accomplish anything, except to give our opponents cheap ammunition (by making us look petty).

The so-called "debate" in that first CNN clip I linked infuriated me too. It was absurd that Stephen Smith, a sportscaster (why was he even there?), had the only lick of sense among the pundits. Despite the fact that even he felt the need to continually repeat that he didn't agree with atheists, after it aired I did send him an email to thank him for defending free speech.

In case any others missed it, I'll repeat the link here. I can't imagine that anyone who watches this won't see the report at the top of the page as an improvement in the situation.

PS to Bluebird: Miniature Schnauzers are cool; we have a Welsh Terrier--which is essentially a black and tan version of your dog :-)

Other Comments by ZekeCDN
Reload Comments | Back to Top

More Comments: 1 2 | Next | Last

Comment Entry: Please Login

Register a new account

Username:

Password:

This article is reposted from a website that accepts comments.
Why not share your comment on the article there as well? CLICK HERE