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Comment #189126 by Bonzai on June 5, 2008 at 1:56 pm
Steve
It is interesting what has been labeled "straight" at various times. Apparently you are still straight in some circles if you have sex with a transexual, or a ladyboy, or an effeminate man and so on.
52. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #189121 by Bonzai on June 5, 2008 at 1:44 pm
Accoding to wiki the Chinese name is "Hanzi",
Korea calls them "Hanja", and Vietnam calls them "Han Tu".
53. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #189117 by Bonzai on June 5, 2008 at 1:39 pm
Carrot juice is murder.
54. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #189112 by Bonzai on June 5, 2008 at 1:31 pm
Mitchell
Although I wasn't saying that "Kanji" was a chinese word
but the chinese still use it as well as plenty of other asian countries, they just all have different names for it.
55. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #189103 by Bonzai on June 5, 2008 at 1:05 pm
Why are we drawn into debating the merit of bestiality with Appleby? I think even by entering into such a debate gives the false impression that somehow having sex with animals or bikes may have any relevance in discussions on homosexuality and heterosexuality, or gay adoption in particular. Since according to Appleby's own argument the rules that govern human relationship don't apply that should be the end of the story.
Another thing is, there is a difference between allowing some kind of behaviour and celebrating it. Even if Appleby manages to somehow prove that his cat enjoys fucking him and he is therefore not guilty of cruelty towards animal by forcing himself on the cat, it is still not an argument that society should institutionalize their relationship and treat them as a "couple" and allows them to adopt children as "parents". So this is really a big diversion irrelevant to any discussion,
Edit Now according to my therapist friend a very small number of people apparently have sexual fetish in objects.Other than being weird, having a sexual "relationship" with bikes and household appliances is not illegal and it doesn't raise any ethical problem. But no one would argue that society should recognize such "relationships".
Leave Appleby alone, maybe he can persuade his cat that his argument is sound.
56. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #188220 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 11:38 am
You're very naughty, Philip. Have a cup of tea and calm yourself.
57. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #188213 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 11:15 am
PBUM
There's no getting away from the fact that we have genetic mother and father roles built in, though of course this varies from person to person.
58. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #188210 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 11:01 am
epeeist
How about "La Cage aux Folles"?
59. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #188199 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 10:41 am
PBUM
Its whether or not a child is better off having one male and one female as parents, all other things being equal. I think this is a fair line of enquiry.
60. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #188198 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 10:35 am
Podaar
You might do well to watch 'The Bird Cage." I can think of many reasons why Nathan Lane's character is a better role model than my own Mother...not least of which, he's a better dresser. :)
61. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #188193 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 10:29 am
Doctor Dee
Anyone who is concerned about the sexual orientation (whatever it is) of potential adopters has some serious issues going on. As if it matters what the parents like to do to each other in bed.
62. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187978 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 5:18 am
epeeist
I have to wonder, how old is this guy? He actually comes across as very juvenile.
63. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187973 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 5:07 am
Appleby
This is an illustration of your double standard.So stop insisting that we should all accept gay rights without question when you clearly do not acknowledge the rights of those who practice bestiality
64. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187967 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 4:58 am
No, I want *you* to tell me why you do not condone bestiality. Is it a "species" thing? And on what scientific evidence is this used to draw the line?
65. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187960 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 4:52 am
Appleby
The very fact that "consent" is a requirement for sex between *humans* (and this is fair), makes it inapplicable to animals as a basis for inherently forbidding bestiality (animals can't give consent even if they wanted to). So the "consent" argument fails there.
66. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187956 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 4:47 am
Quetzalcoatl
Homosexuality involves two consenting partners, which is a valid basis for condoning it. Since bestiality does not entail an element of consent, you cannot attempt to claim that the two are somehow analogous when they are not.
67. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187953 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 4:43 am
Hence why it's silly to make consent a criterion for sex with an animal.
68. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187940 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 4:26 am
The status quo.
69. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187938 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 4:24 am
M Murray
. That is whether not having one parent of each gender has implications for the way the child grows up -- maybe confusion in their own gender identity ?
70. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187931 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 4:16 am
So what is the technical difference between "condoning "bestiality and heterosexuals who have sex but plan not to have kids?
71. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187881 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 1:05 am
Not so. Men who are have been brought up to value fatherhood as a mark of honour are more likely to invest in the moral and character upbringing of their children. Conversely, a society that denigrates fatherhood, and paints fathers as schmucks, will tend to produce men who regard the whole thing as a burden.
72. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187876 by Bonzai on June 3, 2008 at 12:10 am
Diacanu
Fanusi Khiyal-
non-patriachal societies
Define and identify one.
73. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187874 by Bonzai on June 2, 2008 at 11:58 pm
Fanusi
The swing towards conservatism on in America is fueled by the fact that the patriachal values of the Red States encourage larger familes and greater investment in children.
74. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187872 by Bonzai on June 2, 2008 at 11:53 pm
Appleby
Should we do so just to accommodate the possibility of homosexual parenting? Can this be extended to say, people who practice bestiality? Are they also equally fit to be parents until proven otherwise? If not, why not?
75. Lying for Jesus?
Comment #187785 by Bonzai on June 2, 2008 at 4:33 pm
...zombies ARE scientifically impossible
76. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187695 by Bonzai on June 2, 2008 at 1:10 pm
Appleby
What's the matter? Can't prove that homosexual parenting is equal to hetereosexual parenting? Or am I supposed to assume it is and prove otherwise? While I'm at it, am I also supposed to assume that there are pink elephants on Mars until proven otherwise?
77. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187681 by Bonzai on June 2, 2008 at 1:00 pm
" I have two fathers"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_qf0puHJ-KM
A beautiful song that hopefully would induce heart attacks in people like Appleby.
78. Storm erupts over 'virginity' divorce
Comment #187676 by Bonzai on June 2, 2008 at 12:53 pm
Appleby
Because it's different from everyday children with real, biological parents (one male, one female) who aren't, under any circumstances, deemed to be inadequate for being heterosexual.
The thing is, with homosexuals, we simply don't know and we cannot ignore the fact that they are homosexuals.
79. Group wants Wi-Fi banned from public buildings
Comment #186217 by Bonzai on May 29, 2008 at 11:57 pm
mordacious1
. If this "victim" is having problems, the burden should be on him to provide the double blind study, then sue in civil court.
80. Group wants Wi-Fi banned from public buildings
Comment #186211 by Bonzai on May 29, 2008 at 11:27 pm
Steveroot
At each location they are asked to describe their sensations to staff who also do not know where the "EM " locations are (this is the "double" part of the "double -blind"). The results are analysed. Mill's Methods could be used here.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mill's_Methods
f the EM radiation actually has physiological effects on these people, then this is *not* psychosomatic.
If evidence indicates these people are being harmed by the EM radiation, steps should be taken to reduce or eliminate it. We would do the same for the Snail Darter.
81. Group wants Wi-Fi banned from public buildings
Comment #186130 by Bonzai on May 29, 2008 at 4:30 pm
dloubet
I say we test them in a double-blind experiment to see if they're as sensitive as they say they are. And if they're not, they foot the bill for the experiment, and the lawyers.
There is much less (if any) evidence for the problem these folks claim. Let the blind studies commence. Meanwhile, yes, this *is* completely crazy. ;-)
82. Town moves against Islamic school
Comment #185631 by Bonzai on May 28, 2008 at 8:34 am
You also mention the West Bank and the Israelis wanting it for it's resources (what resources?)
83. Town moves against Islamic school
Comment #185460 by Bonzai on May 27, 2008 at 9:06 pm
Goldy
I don't know what goes on in rural China, but female infanticide apparently happens, as in India, quite often. What difference that with honour killings in the grand scheme of things?
84. Town moves against Islamic school
Comment #185450 by Bonzai on May 27, 2008 at 8:34 pm
HunterSolomon
I'm still completely astounded to see that there are still quite a few people on this board who think criticizing Islam is racism.
85. Town moves against Islamic school
Comment #185110 by Bonzai on May 27, 2008 at 2:03 am
People can do the right thing for the wrong reason.
I suspect the Camdeners are at least a little bit motivated by racism and xenophobia.They would probably be just as upset if a large number of Chinese atheists want to move in.Aside from Pauline Hanson actually being a serious politician for a while, my brother lived in Australia for a few years and he experienced Aussie "hospitality" first hand, like landlords telling him they don't rent to Asians.
However, their paranoia may be justified with regard to Islam. The article doesn't say anything about the nature of the school, but these days a lot of them seem to be Wahabi indoctrination camps funded by the Saudis.
I agree with Fanusi to the extent that Islam is a dangerous ideology and a large number of unintegrated Muslims in any country is almost certainly going to create problems.
However, I also think it is wrong to see all Muslims as just automatons who think of nothing but Islam. Many Muslims in the U.S. and Canada do integrate well into their host countries and they are not a problem.
There have to be incentives for Muslims to integrate and room for them to integrate into, I think Fanusi's all stick and no carrot approach is counter productive because it would drive even the moderates to close rank with the radicals if they feel they are being attacked as a group by the mainstream society.
That perception of persecutions, sometimes not without justifications, is perhaps a reason why many Muslims are reluctant to speak out against the extremists. Another reason is that the truly integrated probably don't think they have any more responsibility to speak out than the rest of us. I mean, why the hell should I be expected to speak out more than other Canadians about human rights abuse in China? I have no connection to the place whatsoever.
And oh please, Robert Spencer and Hugh FitzGerald of the Jihad Watch are just a couple of hacks. Just because they can write good polemics and manage to read a few books in translations don't make them "scholars".Walid Shoebat is not a very credible person because, what the hell do we really expect him to say, now that he is paid and protected by his Israeli friends? A smart man knows which side his toast is buttered, and Mr.Shoebat is not stupid by all accounts.
86. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #184087 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 2:52 pm
No person wants such detailed micro-management, humans are too independent for that, as a species.
87. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #184085 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 2:47 pm
I should also add that in Marx's time "freedom of the press" was a luxury of those who could actually read or have the time to read, which would exclude many people. It was almost a status symbol.
It is sadly still the case in many third world countries, including the ME. Why do people vote religious parties in Egypt and Turkey, for example? Partly it is because of religiosity, but partly I think is because only the religious nuts talk about actually bread and butter issues rather than freedom that many in those places don't have the means to purchase.
88. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #184081 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 2:29 pm
His attack on freedom of the press was another disappointing comment.
89. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #184072 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 2:16 pm
Let's be honest, Marx espoused nasty and vicious doctrines, full stop.
90. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #184062 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 2:03 pm
MaxD
I think Marxist doctrine has produced evil men because it believes history to be something than can and will end when the new system comes into fruition. That is it has a definate prophesy and worse than that it is an end that can be facilitated by humans. In any event, don't read me too closely as one of his defenders! :)
91. Losing Our Spines to Save Our Necks
Comment #184050 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 1:41 pm
I am expecting Taratonis to show up any time now with a fiction length post to laud the greatness of Wikipedia. Afterall this is his second passion.
EDIT I think Wiki articles on technical and scientific matters are pretty decent. On more general subjects especially those that may involve controversial topics, one has to be more careful. In general it gives a good starting point, but more follow up and cross checking with sources may be required. I think that is how most intelligent people would use any internet source anyway. I am actually rather surprised that people would hold anything against the intellectual standard of the Wiki on an internet forum. In such forums people routinely link to all kind of non peer reviewed online sources on a variety of topics and no one seems to be bothered by the practice. The Wiki may not be scholarly enough to be cited in an academic paper, but probably better sourced and referenced than most links that people post on internet forums.
92. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #183937 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 8:18 am
I can see some valid arguments for preventing corporations from making political donations. However, applying the same logic, trade unions shouldn't make them either.
93. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #183935 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 8:07 am
Al
Ooooooh swing and a miss. Price is based on perceived value.
94. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #183930 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 7:59 am
Phil rimmer,
What if someone is clever enough to create more atmosphere, more means of living? That would be in everyone's interests to encourage, surely?
The only way a post-industrial society such as ours in the UK can prosper, is through problem-solving and other forms of creativity. (Or being a plumber, of course. £250/day! Not bad.) Individuals must think of themselves as being able to add value in some way, and given the huge changes in the nature of work
The trade unions were essential then. They have lost their way rather now. I do wish that adult education and training were at the heart of their concerns.
95. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #183916 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 7:31 am
Quetzalcoatl
But what is "private property?" Do you have personal possessions? What is yours and what is state-owned
96. How to reconcile Richard Dawkins?
Comment #183914 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 7:18 am
Al,
I prefer liberty, freedom to succeed, the freedom to fail, the freedom to live how I choose.
97. Richard Dawkins Responds to Rabbi Shmuley Boteach
Comment #183876 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 4:40 am
Actually, I agree with those who say that clearmind smells like a big fake. Look at how his writing suddenly improves and then just when his sentences become coherent they would dissolve into incongruent fragments again, it looks like a deliberate attempt to speak wooter.There is also an interesting stylistic twist in the form of dialogues.
I am thinking maybe whoever that is behind the screen name is more perverted than stupid. I suggest he should get a life regardless.
98. Richard Dawkins Responds to Rabbi Shmuley Boteach
Comment #183872 by Bonzai on May 23, 2008 at 4:27 am
Wooter suddenly sounds like Nietzsche in thus spoke Zarathustra, except with a lot of spelling and grammatical mistakes and mangled sentences. No intelligent man no logical no can be profit no no wooter.
Child 1. look at that man Wooter, are his pants on fire? It is dark but his arse glows like a thousand stars.
child 2: I see, man no logic torches his balls.
child 1: you wrong. Wooter no logic man has no balls.
99. 'Reverse Evolution' Discovered in Seattle Fish
Comment #183536 by Bonzai on May 22, 2008 at 8:27 am
Mike,
Well whether it is the same house or they can be meaningfully said to be in the same neighbourhoood would depend on how you measure distance in the phase space, It is probably true that set of characteristics being measured are not good enough for that purpose, but maybe they are. The article doesn't say,
I don't know if the purpose is to try to reconstruct evolutionary history. If that is the purpose it wouldn't be sufficient to simply knowing that you have reach a particular state, even if you can narrow it down. There are many possible paths to reach it and they cannot be ruled out apriori.
When you bring in relationship with other populations then of course there is no "reversal", for that means restoring the "environment" of the species to an earlier state as well. This is never implied.
I can be wrong, I think while it is not meaningful to talk about the direction of evolution, it does make sense to talk about the proximity of species, based on some measure. If that is true that all they are saying is that the fish evolved away from a given state and then come close to it again. Think of the original state as a point. Draw a big circle and a small circle centered at the point. At time = t, species is in a state specified by a point outside the big circle (far from the center) and then at time s, s > t, organism is found at another state, which is inside the smaller circle (closer to the circle). That is all I mean.
100. 'Reverse Evolution' Discovered in Seattle Fish
Comment #183523 by Bonzai on May 22, 2008 at 8:00 am
Mike,
If the house looks exactly like yours and you can open its door with your key it is probably your house.
You are absolutely right that the "retracing" doesn't have to, and likely won't go through the same path, so I should have said instead "revisit some earlier states in its evolutionary history,--or at least states that are sufficiently close to those"
In that sense it is a "reversal". To my knowledge there is no principle in biology that says that you cannot talk about a state without specifying how you get there. You can reach the same state (or the same cluster of states in some "phase space") through different paths How you get there would depend, among other things, where you were. So it is still your house even though you might have taken a different path home.]
EDIT The main point is that in context, I don't find anything in the phrase "reverse evolution" that may suggest inappropriately that there is an intrinsic direction to evolution.